One of our greatest challenges in relationships is to not get triggered into self-abandonment when others are unloving — to stay connected with ourselves rather than getting triggered into our wounded self.
Lila asks:
“When I find mysel...
There is often confusion between the authentic need for others' support, and being needy. A member of Inner Bonding Village posted this question:
“Since doing couples therapy, it has come to light that I often don’t consider sharing sadn...
Claire DillonJuly 17, 2019
Great advice. It is important to lead by example to influence the behaviour of those around you rather than telling them how they should act. We need to look at our own behaviour before we tell others how to behave.
lucie kasna wrote a new blog entry: 17 June 2019 at 12:39 AM
The secret of being happy is believing that you are
We all want to be happy, right? As a mother of two, I have experienced pure states happiness, of course, but there have also been some pretty low moments—when everything is overwhelm...
…believe me, you're not just lying around if you offer yourself to the Divine. It's a shift from indulging the small self to serving the Great One ~ Tosha Silver
I went with my sister to a reading by Tosha Silver from her new book, Change...
Learn to practice awareness of intent, to move out of your painful feelings and into your inner peace.
Those of you who have been practicing Inner Bonding know that the basis of the Inner Bonding process is the intent to learn about loving yourself and o...
Do you believe you are responsible for causing others’ anger, hurt, sadness or anxiety? Is this causing you to feel guilty?
“My wife is so upset that I have to travel more on my new job,” Chuck told me in our phone counselling session. ...
Sierra FairfullAugust 28, 2018
A really relatable article! I think everyone gets caught up feeling responsible for the emotions of others from time to time!
Vance Larson wrote a new blog entry: 10 May 2018 at 07:01 PM
I've spent a great deal of time working with couples who are having a hard time communicating within their relationship. One of the first questions I ask them is "Was it always hard to talk to each other"? The answer is almost always no. But over time, th...
You can trick yourself into believing that your problems are created by other people. Yet in reality, it is exhausting and often fruitless trying to control others behaviours to suit yourself. You can certainly inspire and influence others, however, ...
Creating Emotional Stability is one of our most popular posts here at Blisspot! We all have emotions and it can be common to feel "out of control" when our emotions seem to automatically take over. Emotions, of themselves, are not a problem, in fact they ...
