You are familiar with ambiguous images like the one above, which show two things at the same time; one aspect usually dominates (is it a rabbit, or a duck?). So much so that some people can't see the second interpretation, even when it is pointed out to t...
There is no such thing as a ‘communication breakdown’.
We hear about it all time, but I think this is an unhelpful and limiting term which does more harm than good. Here’s why.
First, communication cannot ‘break down’, in t...
Because. When I watch you eat. When I see you asleep. When I look at you lately, I just want to smash your face in. ~ War of the Roses
The above is a great quote from the great movie War Of The Roses. Many of us have undoubtedly felt like this at one tim...
I call BS! And I'm not ashamed to admit that I have had to call BS on myself from time to time. Far too many men are not acting like men. This isn't about judgement. This is about intimacy in its highest form. Let us suspend talking about what we are not ...
Are you scared of being weak and a pushover if you start becoming more feminine?
What if your man starts taking advantage of you?
Do you feel like you have to make a stand, be assertive, take charge and control what's...
Deborah Fairfull
What a beautiful, practical article in guiding woman in HOW to tap into their feminine essence, helping to harmonise male and female energy.
Most of us like to think we are honest people, but how often do you deny your truth to get approval or avoid disapproval or conflict?
“A ‘No’ uttered for the deepest conviction is better and greater than a ‘Yes’ merely utter...
There is always, always, always something to be grateful for. This is how I once opened a lecture to a group of people who were training to become volunteers for a non-profit organization that I worked for. I was met with "How can you minimize someone's e...
Deborah Fairfull
An important reminder to direct our mind towards gratitude, that can also help to impact those around us in a life-enhancing way. Thankyou so much Vance.
Creating Emotional Stability is one of our most popular posts here at Blisspot! We all have emotions and it can be common to feel "out of control" when our emotions seem to automatically take over. Emotions, of themselves, are not a problem, in fact they ...
I see it several times a month. A client will come to see me for relationship help and complain about their partner. They go on to say that they're tired of relationship fails. That every relationship they have seems to have the same patter...
BlisspotGreat article Vance about relationships. Yes everything starts and ends with ourselves! Important to do our work on ourselves first and then we are not looking for others to fill the holes in ourself. Great read, thankyou for sharing your wisdom with us... moreGreat article Vance about relationships. Yes everything starts and ends with ourselves! Important to do our work on ourselves first and then we are not looking for others to fill the holes in ourself. Great read, thankyou for sharing your wisdom with us to benefit many.
It has become painfully obvious to me that we have become a nation of zombies. The amount of time we spend on our computers and checking our phones has dumbed us down. I am guilty of this too. What I have found most interesting is in my counseling practic...