I was working with a male client no too long ago. He was having some relationship issues. Just the other day, I read an article about the surge of women dating women. Which was good for me, because it was on track with how I worked with my client. The art...
Deborah TysonSeptember 10, 2020For those of you that don't know Vance, his blogs are one of the most popular on our site. Vance has a wealth of knowledge and experience, really "walks his talk"' and has made a positive difference to so many people's lives. With much gratitude for your... moreFor those of you that don't know Vance, his blogs are one of the most popular on our site. Vance has a wealth of knowledge and experience, really "walks his talk"' and has made a positive difference to so many people's lives. With much gratitude for your contributions Vance.
Eva Smith wrote a new blog entry: 24 August 2020 at 03:03 AM
Have you ever wondered why it is easier to go to a heart specialist for heart problems than going to a professional psychologist for any mental conditions or depression? What is it? A fear regarding what they do? Or the social stigma that still surro...
Latitude. Giving people the space to be themselves. An art that most of us have forgotten. We are quick to criticize, and slow to praise. We latch onto what is wrong, and overlook what is right. What’s worse. We even do it to ourselves. Let us embra...
Speak on it. Talk before resentment steps in. I tell all of my clients that. So many turn to silence when their significant other has done something wrong, or having done something that upsets them. Ahh....silence. The preferred method...
Even the strongest have their moments of fatigue. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
Never again normal. Not in our lifetime. COVID-19 has changed the course of life for many of us. Here in the States, most of us have been locked down for close to a month. As Nie...
Deborah TysonApril 11, 2020
Great post Vance on how to look after yourself and create a better life in the longer term as a result of all the current changes.
Relationships offer a wonderful gift for growth and learning to love our self and our significant other without condition. However, too often we forget about our self, our needs, wants and desires. We can get up wrapped up in love.
No matter how suc...
Sex! Now that I have your attention, let's talk about it. Let's talk about the 4 year headache. This is what I commonly call a relationship when the sex has died down. I see countless couples every year regarding this issue. There really isn't an age grou...
Some people seem to "get on" effortlessly with everyone. How do they do it? The key is building a strong, effective rapport—through paying attention, verbal communication, body language and simply being curious and genuinely interested in the other ...
Do you try to talk with someone when you already know he or she is closed? Consider NOT putting your inner child in the line of... moreDo you try to talk with someone when you already know he or she is closed? Consider NOT putting your inner child in the line of fire.
How often do you ask a question or make a statement to a partner, co-worker, friend, or relative at a time...
